A Woman is a sex object

A Woman is a sex object

Sometimes from the depiction of women in films and ads there are some people who allege that women are portrayed as sex objects in them..but the very word object is a derivative of the word objective and yes precisely  all those film makers objective is to enhance the beauty and sensuality of those women ...That they do with the express purpose of pleasing the viewers senses and why is that wrong? It makes any normal human very happy to see a woman being beautiful sensual and sexual and that feeling comes from a nature given instinct ..An attempt to curb that feeling only can come from an intention of those spoil sport people who want to repress happiness and that they do by trying to make all concerned feel guilty... A woman's beauty is a relative feeling and not an absolute reality..for instance the most beautiful woman in the world is just a piece of meat to a lion and the most beautiful lioness in the world is still an object of danger for a man.

Likewise even among human beings different people have different feelings towards everything with regard to a woman..

I personally am in awe of women primarily due to their beauty and their sensuality and above all i highly respect their divine sexuality.

Yes i know that a woman is not just a object of beauty and she is also a mother a sister a friend a well wisher and all those things but  according to me the highest value and power a woman can ever have is only  her own sexuality and there are numerous testimonies to this throughout history ...Battles have been fought for posessing the beauty of a woman and never for mothers sisters friends well wishers etc ...i also think Creating the beauty sensuality and sexuality of a woman is just about the only good thing God has ever done in his life time and for that I forgive him for creating various other nasty little things like mosquitoes  floods diseases earthquakes etc .. in compensation to all those bad things he created i think he felt guilty and thus he gave the greatest gift to us men in the form of women..I pray to the scientists and inventors that they create more and more innovative film technology thus enabling us film makers to capture in more and more better ways the beauty the sensuality and the sexuality of those divine wonderful beings called women

RGV

Crime is a disease

My article in Bombay times in the context of the gang rape that happened in Mumbai

Crime is a disease

In the wake of last week's shocking Mumbai gang rape I really was disturbingly intrigued about one thing..I felt it would be very important to know what the Mumbai rapists would have felt about the huge national outrage of both the Media and the public over the Delhi gang rape that happened a few months back...After all the noise made and stringent laws passed if it dint deter this new gang from repeating such a blatant and a horrific act once again and that too in the nerve centre of the commercial capital of india,its obvious that criminals such as these are the last people to fear or bother about laws  .To start with I dont think any criminal who commits a crime actually thinks of the severity of the punishment..it's not possible that a criminal individual will think for himself 'its ok if I go to jail for a term of 5 years for raping a woman but I will think again if its going to be a life term" A criminal commits an act of a crime either because he cant control his urge which is psychological or because he thinks he wont be caught which is due to his part ignorance and part overconfidence.... So in both ways us common folks screams from the roof tops of our twitters  for justice and more punishment actually never reach where they should reach which is the concerned criminals cell phones....and if at all they reach its very evident that the criminals care a hoot about it>> And with our screams if we are targeting the political leaders and law enforcement agencies for the inadequacies in our police department lets not forget that even in a far superiorly equipped place such as New york city also such crimes happen much more rampantly than here..And trying to greatly increase police vigilance and bringing in all kinds of restrictions on movement in the name of safety will only push our society towards becoming a police state>> It is easy to cite the examples of almost crime free countries which practice stringent and brutal punishments such as Sharia,but are any of us really are willing to lose our individual freedom just for the sake of feeling safe..the answer from most of us  ofcourse will be a resounding big big No> >> Freedom comes with a price and we have no choice but to pay for it and yes sometimes very dearly..like the old saying goes you cant have the cake and eat it too..so if this bitter truth sinks in and if we manage to keep our emotional outrage aside for a moment and instead of screaming mindlessly and uselessly for the blood of the criminal and jumping into the social network circus ring to be among the seemingly shocked and appalled celebs nd politicos of the world i really think it would be much more wiser to take a mature and more indepth look at crime for what it really is...i think crime is a disease and a criminal is its carrier..if there is a life threatening disease it's obvious that one has to keep working on trying to understand its origin and nature  to contain or eradicate it ...its plain useless and stupid to get angry with the disease...one might say that a criminal is a human being and has a rational mind and hence he needs to be responded to on the same level as that of a human being..But going by the repeated examples we are witnessing again and again that theory does not hold water at all because a rational and normal thinking man will never take part in such a horrific act as a gang rape in the first place..so it follows that our aggravated and angry normal human reactions will never have an effect on such criminal organisms which indulge in gang rape and other such horrific acts>> It goes without saying that there are no easy answers or solutions for such a thing as eradication of crime..No civil society no matter how advanced has never been able to decimate crime..if at all possible to achieve that one way I strongly believe could be that it should be diagnosed and treated in the sa me way as one would treat a disease...I really think it will be very enlightening both for the policing agencies and the common people if an effort were made by some concerned to make some really good psychologists conduct extremely professional indepth interviews with the Delhi and Mumbai gang rapists with regard to what they think of women and why they think like that ..also to ask them what they think of the existing laws and what makes them think that they will not be caught ..to make those interview contents public for everyone to read will be at least a first step towards us common people understanding the origin,nature and the cause of  that horrific disease called crime and hopefully a way forward for some of us to reach some kind of a treatment for its cure